no point worrying about something u cant control...
something came to mind and i have experienced this and also been on the other end of it and i guess people have done it before aswell. When you have doubts and worries about the things in life and the actions that your friends make because you care for them which makes you worry about their health, self being and their habits influenced by external factors.
when you tell your friends about the experiences in life and to give them a bit of a warning to not try it as you have experienced it before and it wasnt a good thing and had realised it was a bad thing to do.
BUT
when you find out or when they confess to you that they done what you done in the past, you kinda have this feeling of emptyness and lose respect for them in a way but when they end up doin it and you dont know what to think of them anymore and you cant do anything else because its out of your control. How do you handle such a situation? well being their friend you dont do anything to help them, to tell them, to warn them about the possible outcomes of it i guess and it all comes from the lack of confidence u have for them as a friend and that they are able to do what ever they want and without me caring about it and take it and move on from it.
mind blank
dont ya hate it when you want to voice/type out ur thoughts and you cant... thats a mind blank for ya. i seriously cant think of anything to write on the blog. althought i might have some sort of short term memory at times where i got a mad piece to write to the blog and once logged on it drifts away.
Social Climbers
Dont ya just hate it when someone social climbs you?
Social climbing is when someone dogs you for friends of higher status. i just hate the fact when that does happen to me that the person has to rub it in that they are now closer friends than i am and that they are in a higher position. i dont need that kind of caper around. I have had a situation where i was friends with this person and when i intro'ed the person to my friends, the person started hanging out with them and didnt talk or hung out with me. and then the person jumped onto another group of friends and so on with the same treatment in not talking or hanging out with those groups. but later ended up with no friends cause they climbed the social ladder and knew what was expect and the treatment of the friends after jumping that the person ended up having no friends and to a point where the person wasnt invited anywhere cause they knew what the person would be capable of and would act fake in a way just to be your friend again.
on that note and some advice. appreciate the friends you have and dont jump onto another group just cause they have a higher status, diversify, invite and enjoy.
