Whitewashed.

Views on V-Day

That day, that one day of the year where hallmark cashes in on a massive revenue with their cards. that day that flower prices fluctuate and rise up by 200% that day where chocolate prices rise nearly as high as petrol prices

Yes that day...... Valentines day

i was having a chat with a friend tonight about it and it got me thinking with one major question.

"does hanging out with someone on valentines day count as being their valentine"

in my opinion i dont regard it as being their valentine unless its been declared official between the two parties, like its just like any other day if your hanging out with someone... why does it have to be so significant on valentines day thou to me its like any other normal day.

i went around asking a few friends about this curious question and i got some lob sided responses, here are the responses i got

.janeese. says:
if its just hanging out then I think no


DJ Kai says:
hahahah peeps are just looking too much into it..
DJ Kai says:
yeah but its honestly nothing man... like i think its just another day for me
DJ Kai says:
its only the girls who make it out to be something


Eternity -- Resp: maybe?
Kwokka - when yo: why mayb e
Eternity -- Resp: depends whether you're in denial or you feel sorry for her


Daniel [zzz]: hey... erm depends on whether it's a date on V day or not I guess
Daniel [zzz]:like my friend and I are going to a Jap house but we are juz friends
Kwokka - when yo: but does she consider you as a valentine
Daniel [zzz]: definitely not being her V.. lol
Kwokka - when yo: like does itr have to involve confrontation or anything to make it official
Kwokka - when yo: like its like any other day in my opinion
Daniel [zzz]: lol
Daniel [zzz]: yea me too
Daniel [zzz]: as in it's official only when u tell her
Kwokka - when yo: so confirmation about it all
Kwokka - when yo: that counts
Daniel: well i guess as a twenty-er we should be mature enuff to know that valentines is nothing but another day for the posh restaurants to rip us off lol.... so yea, confirmation is a must


Brad : From now: haha its valentines day]
Brad : From now: she knows it
Kwokka - when yo: but its like any other day
Brad : From now: nup
Kwokka - when yo: what happens if i dont know if its valentines day and just asking to hang out as normal
Brad : From now: doesnt work that way
Kwokka - when yo: what u mean?
Brad : From now: the rules change on v day
Brad : From now: if u are the only one she is hanging with
Brad : From now: then its u


Duo: only if she tells u that ur her valentine
Duo: without confirmation .. its nothing


ellie-shhH!: generallly does mean that
ellie-shhH!: BUT
ellie-shhH!: it depends mann.. depends on ur relationship and how clear ur communication is with each other..


jasey // DND: thats a tough one
jasey // DND: depends on what the intentions are
Kwokka - Good Vi: man its just hanging out thou
jasey // DND: Yeah
jasey // DND: like if youre both single and are hanging out to get past the day then no youre not her valentine


` y z Z z i l .: well thenu would just assume shes ur valentine
` y z Z z i l .: ur practically asking her to hang out meaning there could be intentions


[D] says: no, it only becomes significant if you make it significant


just pete... (shruggz) says: because you can jsut say we're hanging out to spite all those mushy cunts.. meaning you're just out but not on a date for valentines
just pete... (shruggz) says: like, everyoen single going out to get wasted on v-day
just pete... (shruggz) says: cos all the big corps wanted a holiday to make money off between xmas & easter
just pete... (shruggz) says: because people are brainwashed
just pete... (shruggz) says: screw it.. bro.. go hang out with whoever on that day.. it means what it means to you

these are the repsonses i got from the question i asked, some say it does mean the person is ur valentine, some say its not unless there is action taken.

what are your thoughts on this?

posted by Just Kwokka @ 10:14 PM 0 Comments

Progress

My progress has gone pretty good, i have stopped burning up, i am starting to eat properly again especially with the use of the sides of my mouth as the teeth are still sensitive.my lip has healed up but my mouth has still got that cut and thats healing slowly. some reason im tired and get drained out hardcore. for example i played cricket and i needed to rest for a bit between sessions. i got this cough that i need to get rid of and i should be fine, earlier in the week the doctor said i had kidney problems but thats been cleared today and that i didnt have any kidney problems what so ever. i took myself out to the city for a bit of a test and some reason i felt a bit groggy walking around and stuff.
im back at work next week and thats the real test to sustain 8 hours hopefully i dont get drained out.
its like im taking baby steps again in life.
just a thank you to those who have been checking up on how i have been
greatfully appreciated.

posted by Just Kwokka @ 8:34 PM 0 Comments

This Ordeal

I havent written a blog in a few weeks and what would be a great time to write one right now of what has happened in the past week or so which has got me in tatters, in a vulnerable, painful and depressing state.
last thursday was Australia day eve and i went out to kings cross with friends to have a few drinks and have a good time and later on we waited in the rain for the car to come around and thats when i first felt something was gonna develop like a cold or a fever.
Friday i woke up with a slight headache and it wasnt from the hangover i manage to get but it was something on what i still thought was a fever, so i took panadol that day along with drinking alot of water in order to stay on top of it and tried to sleep it off.
saturday after drinking alot of water, i was feeling worse and went to the toilet to take a piss and after that walking back to the bedroom i blacked out and collapsed on the floor knocking two front teeth out, slightly breaking my nose, cutting the inside my mouth with my bottom teeth, cut on my lip from the remainder of my top tooth and a couple of grazes was the damage to me also having the fever. i went to the hospital that day for tests and stuff on what i could have and why i'd fallen. took 10 hours to find out that i had this virus infection and that it was having a huge effect on me. Having the virus is one thing but i really didnt want those injuries and broken teeth also.
i cant eat much nor speak much in the first 2 days, also i was burning up high temperatures which i couldnt go to sleep.
Later on in the week temperture and headaches went down and i kinda improved with the eating, i cant eat large amounts or big pieces because of my teeth, resolving me to eating to the sides. The medication i have been taking is penecillin and the continuation of panadol.
i still feel weak and its gonna take a bit for me to reach 100% and i still need to get my teeth fixed with a root canal and crowns being put in place. Currently the dentist glued back my broken teeth which consisted of one completely broken off tooth and the other a big chip which the rest of it was loose.
Just like to say thanks to those who sent sms's to me about their concern.
but a bigger thanks to those who visited me. Liz, Maggie, Jeff, Elai, Jen, Tommy, Leroy, Carlo, Nathan and Brad. I appreciated you guys and girls in coming to visit me and to see how im goin.
i'll be back on my feet in no time well in time for boyz II men i hope :D

posted by Just Kwokka @ 9:04 PM 0 Comments