Whitewashed.

Views on V-Day

That day, that one day of the year where hallmark cashes in on a massive revenue with their cards. that day that flower prices fluctuate and rise up by 200% that day where chocolate prices rise nearly as high as petrol prices

Yes that day...... Valentines day

i was having a chat with a friend tonight about it and it got me thinking with one major question.

"does hanging out with someone on valentines day count as being their valentine"

in my opinion i dont regard it as being their valentine unless its been declared official between the two parties, like its just like any other day if your hanging out with someone... why does it have to be so significant on valentines day thou to me its like any other normal day.

i went around asking a few friends about this curious question and i got some lob sided responses, here are the responses i got

.janeese. says:
if its just hanging out then I think no


DJ Kai says:
hahahah peeps are just looking too much into it..
DJ Kai says:
yeah but its honestly nothing man... like i think its just another day for me
DJ Kai says:
its only the girls who make it out to be something


Eternity -- Resp: maybe?
Kwokka - when yo: why mayb e
Eternity -- Resp: depends whether you're in denial or you feel sorry for her


Daniel [zzz]: hey... erm depends on whether it's a date on V day or not I guess
Daniel [zzz]:like my friend and I are going to a Jap house but we are juz friends
Kwokka - when yo: but does she consider you as a valentine
Daniel [zzz]: definitely not being her V.. lol
Kwokka - when yo: like does itr have to involve confrontation or anything to make it official
Kwokka - when yo: like its like any other day in my opinion
Daniel [zzz]: lol
Daniel [zzz]: yea me too
Daniel [zzz]: as in it's official only when u tell her
Kwokka - when yo: so confirmation about it all
Kwokka - when yo: that counts
Daniel: well i guess as a twenty-er we should be mature enuff to know that valentines is nothing but another day for the posh restaurants to rip us off lol.... so yea, confirmation is a must


Brad : From now: haha its valentines day]
Brad : From now: she knows it
Kwokka - when yo: but its like any other day
Brad : From now: nup
Kwokka - when yo: what happens if i dont know if its valentines day and just asking to hang out as normal
Brad : From now: doesnt work that way
Kwokka - when yo: what u mean?
Brad : From now: the rules change on v day
Brad : From now: if u are the only one she is hanging with
Brad : From now: then its u


Duo: only if she tells u that ur her valentine
Duo: without confirmation .. its nothing


ellie-shhH!: generallly does mean that
ellie-shhH!: BUT
ellie-shhH!: it depends mann.. depends on ur relationship and how clear ur communication is with each other..


jasey // DND: thats a tough one
jasey // DND: depends on what the intentions are
Kwokka - Good Vi: man its just hanging out thou
jasey // DND: Yeah
jasey // DND: like if youre both single and are hanging out to get past the day then no youre not her valentine


` y z Z z i l .: well thenu would just assume shes ur valentine
` y z Z z i l .: ur practically asking her to hang out meaning there could be intentions


[D] says: no, it only becomes significant if you make it significant


just pete... (shruggz) says: because you can jsut say we're hanging out to spite all those mushy cunts.. meaning you're just out but not on a date for valentines
just pete... (shruggz) says: like, everyoen single going out to get wasted on v-day
just pete... (shruggz) says: cos all the big corps wanted a holiday to make money off between xmas & easter
just pete... (shruggz) says: because people are brainwashed
just pete... (shruggz) says: screw it.. bro.. go hang out with whoever on that day.. it means what it means to you

these are the repsonses i got from the question i asked, some say it does mean the person is ur valentine, some say its not unless there is action taken.

what are your thoughts on this?

posted by Just Kwokka @ 10:14 PM